Can’t You Wait Until I’m Dead? ~ Chapter 17: The Future is Female

Many of the colleagues who took me up on coffee were gay, and we talked about our families. One had a partner with a curious question: “Were you always a woman in your dreams, or has it changed since you transitioned?”

“I don’t have a gender in my dreams, but ask me later and I’ll let you know if it changes,” I said.

My first thought was to question wheth…